An oil painting of a lit candle.

Sight Unseen

A blind expat's musings on life, death and the Trump era

April 23, 2026 | Rome, Italy
Making up games can help with school subjects.

Playtime lessons

Playtime is vital to a child, since those deprived of it are likely to rush into adulthood thinking of relaxation as a bad thing.

Do what you do best.

The big fiction

How many times have you heard someone tell you they're writing a novel? Truth is, most of the time they're not, or can't.

When words come first, apps don't count.

Dr. Dating

When you're a medical school student, putting the dating pieces together isn't easily — if it ever is.

Young athletes are pushed beyond most known limits.

Child slavery

The relationship between sports and kids gets dicey when the competition calls for relentless practice and ignoring pain.

Among the author's favorite spots is the Enfield, New Hampshire library.

Reading is encouraged

If you're a freelancer and work enters your life at its own pace, your local library (no, not Amazon) can enrich the passing days.

Still no reasoned speech.

House of Trump

Caveat emptor: A self-interested businessman-president doesn't come equipped with a moral gyroscope.

An Iowa wedding at 78.

One last dance

The author's father is getting married at 78, and the impending change elicits a flood of thoughts and memories.