It has become something of a summer tradition for us to travel from our home in Normandy to a Benedictine abbey tucked in the hills of Western Connecticut, where my husband Simon, a master blacksmith, teaches a workshop on forging iron. The students are of varying ages. Some are young people whose families have been visiting the abbey as guests for many years and have had blacksmithing lessons from the nun who has been directing the shop since forever ago.
The blacksmith shop plays a vital role in this abbey’s life. The smiths there are responsible for making items ranging from the practical, like hooks and handrails, to sculptures and ceremonial pieces.
Cross-pollination can take surprising forms. This summer, for the first time, students came to our forge from the Abbey. Drew, 16, and Curran, 21, two brothers who first took up their hammers at the Abbey many years ago, visited us for an intensive three-day ironwork course. Drew had already been in Paris on a student exchange, but we were astonished to learn that Curran had made the transatlantic trip just for this experience with us!
The Abbess’s enthusiasm for this creative exchange was palpable. “I tend to get carried away,” she wrote to us in an email, but I see this kind of exchange as what the world most needs right now. It is the best way of “forging” peace.”
Decades ago, I, like Drew and Curran, studied at the Abbey forge under the tutelage of the same amazing nun. Perhaps that is why we are of the opinion that learning a craft at the Abbey is about more than the craft itself. It’s about being open to every kind of experience; it’s about extrapolating the maximum good from each activity, whether that’s heating a bar of iron or throwing logs on a wood pile.
These photos show the students’ visit.
The Abbess expressed a hope that they learned a more crucial lesson than forging.
“Hosting these young men at your forge was more than just an educational experience for them,” she said. “It involved two nations, two cultures…. The work is timeless and universal.
And the hard work of forging iron offers a way to understand that peace is not something we can ‘will.’ Lasting peace has to be ‘forged’ like an unbreakable bond.”











