February 27, 2024 | Rome, Italy

Maledetto il giorno che t’ho incontrato (Damned the Day I Met You)

By |2018-03-21T18:29:48+01:00February 16th, 2011|Reviews|


Date: 1992

Director: Carlo Verdone

Starring: Carlo Verdone, Margherita Buy, Elisabetta Pozzi


t his best, Roman comedian Carlo Verdone merged Woody Allen’s indelible obsessions — sex and neurotic self-deprecation — with a kind of vernacular slapstick that put blue-collar Rome at the center of the universe. His comedy was romanaccio, not Italian, and the city loved him for it.

He helped foster the careers of Nancy Brilli, Eleanora Giorgi, Asia Argento, Claudia Gerini, and — significantly — Margherita Buy. Verdone sensed Buy’s insurgent melancholy and cheerful self-doubt in a progression of early 1990s movies, “La Stazione,” “La Settimana della Sfinge” and “Chiedi la Luna.” Finally, 1992, he persuaded her to play his foil in a romantic comedy with a bulky name. It worked.

Their chemistry led to this screwball comedy that is un-Italian in its joy. Bernardo Arbusti (Verdone) is a pill-popping rock music critic determined to make the definitive Jimi Hendrix documentary. When his girlfriend Adriana ditches him for a French war photographer, Bernardo mopes around with his deadbeat nightclub friends who finally ship him off to a local shrink, the laconic Professor Altieri (a Nosferatu-like Alexis Meneloff in his only role ever).

Enter Camilla Landolfi (Buy) as an Italian Annie Hall. Manically in love with Altieri (she’s a patient), she enlists the besieged Bernardo to help her out. Suddenly, they’re a platonic odd couple. It’s pure early Buy: edgy, needy, wanting, moody, crazed, curious, wildly unpredictable.

That, in a nutshell, is the movie. But it’s surefire nutshell because Verdone and Buy forge a Grant-Hepburn-style relationship that makes whatever they do quirky or ridiculous, or both. They lust for anti-depressants and rejoice when they find they like the same ones. Out of touch, they meet again in England where Bernardo is hunting down Hendrix’s “killer” and Camilla is traveling with a patronizing older man.

Verdone lampoons upscale Milan, the dubiousness of shrinks (a favorite theme), the serious silliness of conspiracy theories (Hendrix), and how love is mostly what you have in common. This is a delicious little gem that neither Verdone nor Buy — though still working hard — ever reprised or replicated.

About the Author:

A military brat, Marcia Yarrow was born in Hamburg, Germany but grew up in Germany, Spain, and Provo, Utah. She's been writing for the magazine since its creation in 2004.