Porn and the man
When I was growing up, I would have been shocked to imagine the exchange that follows. It's not that sexuality [...]
Revisions, big and small
What makes up individual mental health is a stormy enough topic on its own. But add the complications of a [...]
All my food in vain
Can cooking ruffle a relationship? I didn't think so, but then again I eat out often, and when I'm at [...]
Other people’s messes
Can you live with other people's messes? It's a question I've pondered with my husband, usually after being at the [...]
T-Rex in your bed
Pets are a relationship mainstay, right? What's a love affair without a dog or a cat? I'd taken pets for [...]
To love is easy and therefore common — but to understand — how rare it is! L.M. Montgomery, from the [...]
Questions about love, dating, and relationships are frequently tossed my way. Never mind my own less-than-perfect relationship record, or that [...]
Did I say you could sleep with me?
In 2014, an interviewer asked venerable British actor Michael Caine about the secret of his 40 years of marriage to [...]
Always the bridesmaid
The idea that pleasing or deferring to your partner comes ahead of all else can land you alone.
What dreams may come
If your life includes drive, ambition and goals, better make sure your mate is on the same page.